Comparison mainly brings you two things. one is happiness, while the other one is feeling of satisfaction.
But it depends on the thing which you use to do comparison. Sometimes comparison brings you the motivation to raise yourself up.
With whom do you compare yourself? With a better person or worse person?
Even if he is a better person or whoever was a worse person, normally we did it.
When you compare yourself with someone who is greater than you, sometimes the comparison brings you unhappiness. But happiness can motivate you to surpass that person. Sometimes it can demoralize you when you feel that they are very lucky to have the intelligence of having the gift of appearance with them.
If the comparison helps you to become a better person when you are comparing yourself with a competition person, then why should you still a to stop comparing yourself with others?
Comparison is a normal and a common thing in a person’s life. Our brain used to compare with others as a result of a measurement. To analyze yourself, or to determine ourselves what we want to be or things we need to update. However, even it is a normal process when comparing with other selves sometimes it leads to unhappiness, doubts about your abilities, and also physical and mental pain.
Sometimes comparisons deviate you from your own path. Life becomes so complex as you start living someone else’s life. You should stop it because comparison has the ability to cultivate low self-esteem, jealousy, pain and also hatred.
Once you stop comparing yourself with others, you are able to pay all your attention to improving yourself. Set goals and build your confidence. Improve yourself through self-compare instead of others. Finally, it gives you happiness and self-satisfaction, and you start to being yourself.
1.Comparing with yourself
Can’t stop comparing yourself with others. Do Not worry.
Let’s move on to replacing the word ‘others’ with yourself. It’s the time to find a better version of you instead of worrying just because of someone else’s achievements.
Try as much as to stop comparing yourself with others. If you want to compare, why don’t you compare yourself.
Sometimes It may be a little bit hard, but it must be something you do, if you are dreaming to update your life in a great one.
Let’s challenge ourselves every single
let’s find, do we become better than yesterday
Let’s do comparison not to prove others about our abilities. Specially to show/prove to ourselves that we are capable of improving ourselves.
2.Fill your life with positivity
If you are feeling bad about your thoughts and emotions, try to understand what’s wrong with you. Try to fill your life with positive Vibes.
If you are using social media every day, while you’re scrolling up and down, you will see a sort of thing.
Social media has more power to motivate you as well as Demotivate you. While scrolling up and down in your feed field, if you notice that everybody has specific things than yours, everyone can be perfecter than you, will turn to make you upset.
Why cannot be like this, “they are better than I”.
Do you know, our brains’ minds are created ethyl capacity of catching bad or negative Vibes than positive. So, from everything around us if you can see the good in everything it is not hard to fill your life with positively.
If you learn; when the positive Vibes begin to grow your mind, there is no need to compare yourself with others.
3.Spend time with yourself.
Sometimes while scrolling up and down reading the newspaper, you will see a sort of image of people achieving things. It may be bound to let you feel bad, if you are not achieving your goals. In particular, you will feel bad about yourself.
If you really feel bad in such an incident. Incident, an incident that means you are still doing comparison between you and others. Cheer yourself up by spending time alone talking to yourself. Try to figure out what makes you feel so down.
If you are not sure about what exactly you want.
how do you want to see yourself in the future, how to find a better version of yourself, what do you want to engage in.
The precious time you spend on yourself one day will become the best investment you have ever made.
When you were able to spend time alone, open the room to find:
” What exactly you want”
“How do you want to see yourself in the future”
“How to find the better version of yourself”
“What do you want to engage in?”
The precious time you spend for your life, one day it will become the best investment you have ever made.
When you are able to spend the time alone, it opens the room to find what you exactly want. You learn to accept yourself. Especially, you learn to find who you are. You learn to value yourself and learn to understand yourself too.
Even though the people around you are getting great opportunities, spending a luxurious Lifestyle or achieving huge achievements while you are not; the time will teach you what you need to change in a state of feeling down by comparing yourself with others.
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4.Be kind to yourself
Looking for a great time to be kind to yourself. It comes true how you make iron for the people.
You do the more others do for you. Time flies without knowing. Never stops for anyone or anything.
Remember few think I will be one day, the day on, come on till you work for it. It is the same when you are trying to be kind to yourself. There is never a better time to be Kind. This is the time. It is the right time to make unconditional love for yourself, which cannot be broken by unkind words or actions of others.
Do you know your worth cannot be quantified? But you are not worth it until you begin. Comparison isn’t always bad, but it always reminds you of your fears. If you let the fear, make a comparison, you won’t stop worrying about everything.
Catch the power of valuing yourself. If you can understand, you are more powerful and more courageous than you think. If you have the courage to remember all the things, you have been able to overcome. Be proud of yourself because you already know how to survive through your own sufferings.
Then why is there a need for a comparison? The choice is always yours.
6.Simply be yourself
Why you are bothering by comparing yourself to be a copycat, when you’ve already born in a unique way.
Why do you feel sorry while you are not doing something wrong. Do you know if you don’t stop comparing yourself with others you always have to apologize for how you dress, how you make your things according to yourself, even the way you are laughing for everything you did for yourself.
Why do you let others interrupt your freedom by comparing? Do not invest your valuable life on other people’s things? You don’t have to hide your true self just to please someone.
Think if you have a lifespan, you will exit at the age of 60. Now you are in your early thirties. If you’re hiding yourself, or sorry for being yourself, how do you try to spend the other half of your life?
It’s the best time to accept this is you. It’s time to love yourself. Love brings you to be yourself. So, it’s the right time to stand up, to love the way you are. Respect the person inside you.
Loving your weirdness, your uniqueness, your awkwardness, and your everything will make you easier to be yourself.
Are you still going to spend the rest of your life compared to others old simply being yourself. It’s the same question, the choice is yours.
7.Change your response to the comparison
You are comparing yourself so much. You know how hard you try to stop it whenever you meet a person who is achieving their goals, has a bright skin color or any other specific feature greater than you, you will instantly make a comparison between you and them. It’s normal. It’s common in society.
Because it has become a part of living in modern society. Even if it is so hard to stop doing, why didn’t we try to reframe our thinking patterns to congratulate them. Admire their capabilities instead of comparing yourself to others.
‘ Woah, That’s great ‘
‘She is looking so gorgeous, with her new hair cut
It is a great way to avoid comparing yourself with others. And also beneficial to your success. Reframing your thinking patterns help to fix your mindset in a great way.
How To change our response to the comparison
- Frame it in a way to congratulate them.
- Instead of comparing, admire them
- If you think they are great people, feel free to ask or take advice about how they face their problems.
- Try to implement yourself by surrounding with people you want to compare yourself.
- Be happy about what you have, what happened in the past, how lucky you are too born in this, while there are so many people who try to win their life with disabilities.
Believe me, if you are willing to learn, willing to improve yourself, change your habits, things you are not capable of for a normal lifestyle, or to keep your mind open, stop comparing yourself with others. Instead of worrying after comparing yourself with others, try to compare yourself with yourself. As long as you are willing, you will find the better version of yourself easily.
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